To Dump Or Not To Dump?
Is it better to be dumped or to dump? Common sense sides with the latter but I think the former could be easily persuaded too.
We all know the pain of being dumped (don't lie you don't!). I do not have to get into that. The pain of breakin' routines, not bein' able to see the one you think you love, the memories, getting used to being alone, seein' your ex sunshine with someone else, blah. Does that mean dumping someone is less painful?
Not necessarily. Sometimes it is more painful. It really depends. But it definitely is wrong to say that it's always painless and always a better option than being dumped.
Pros of being dumped:
1. You don't have a choice. It helps you move on in life knowing there is nothing you can do about the situation. Yes it's unfair but c'mon, so is everything else and you deal with them too, don't you?
2. You wouldn't curse yourself 2 months down the road when you see your ex sugarpoop walk down the street looking infinity-times better and with someone who looks infinity-times better than yourself. In short, you wouldn't have to live with 'Did I make a mistake?'. There is no place for regrets.
3. If you have been a super partner, at least you know you have done your best and it obviously wasn't enough. At least you know.
4. All you need to deal with is your feelings. You don't need to deal with the other party's as well.
5. It motivates you to become better in every way.
6. You know you're letting go of someone who cannot accept you the way you are or the relationship the way it is. Instead of someone who could really be the only living person who would love you.
There are more pros of being dumped but I suddenly feel too sleepy to type on.
Damn. Lemme just state that the cons of dumping someone are the opposite of the abovementioned. I might clean this post up real good when the Sandman stops peppering sleeping dust on me.
I am so sleeeeee/3 ceffffffffffffffffff n bmmmm
We all know the pain of being dumped (don't lie you don't!). I do not have to get into that. The pain of breakin' routines, not bein' able to see the one you think you love, the memories, getting used to being alone, seein' your ex sunshine with someone else, blah. Does that mean dumping someone is less painful?
Not necessarily. Sometimes it is more painful. It really depends. But it definitely is wrong to say that it's always painless and always a better option than being dumped.
Pros of being dumped:
1. You don't have a choice. It helps you move on in life knowing there is nothing you can do about the situation. Yes it's unfair but c'mon, so is everything else and you deal with them too, don't you?
2. You wouldn't curse yourself 2 months down the road when you see your ex sugarpoop walk down the street looking infinity-times better and with someone who looks infinity-times better than yourself. In short, you wouldn't have to live with 'Did I make a mistake?'. There is no place for regrets.
3. If you have been a super partner, at least you know you have done your best and it obviously wasn't enough. At least you know.
4. All you need to deal with is your feelings. You don't need to deal with the other party's as well.
5. It motivates you to become better in every way.
6. You know you're letting go of someone who cannot accept you the way you are or the relationship the way it is. Instead of someone who could really be the only living person who would love you.
There are more pros of being dumped but I suddenly feel too sleepy to type on.
Damn. Lemme just state that the cons of dumping someone are the opposite of the abovementioned. I might clean this post up real good when the Sandman stops peppering sleeping dust on me.
I am so sleeeeee/3 ceffffffffffffffffff n bmmmm
posted by Sharry at 4:57:00 PM
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